He Tohu, A Sign

Do you ever ask yourself “why does this keep happening to me?”

When things start falling apart, it’s natural to want to withdraw, to hide away and heal, to protect ourselves – trust me, I’ve been there many times. And that’s all good for a while, but just don’t stay there! When you stay in that lane too long you stop seeing and doing the beautiful things. You stop hearing and sharing inspiring stories. You forget that you’re not alone, and things start spiralling negatively toward that deep dark space. 

I understand, I feel you, I really do.

“How are you gonna deal with it this time?”

“Is this how you want to keep living?”

“Are you ready to do something about it yet?”

Simply put – nothing changes if nothing changes.

When you reframe the question “why does this keep happening to me?” and instead ask yourself “what can I learn from this?” It’s a game changer!

You see, instead of it happening TO you, it might be happening FOR you, and it’s up to you to take the learnings… Or not!!!


You deserve to HAVE anything you ever desire in life, you deserve to DO anything you desire, and you deserve to BE the best version of you. Don’t underestimate the power of a positive mindset, if you can think it, you can absolutely do it. You are worthy x

– Get out of bed

– Do the thing

– Make the move

– Put yourself first

– Make connections, ask for help

– Look for the lighthouse, BE the lighthouse!


Time waits for nobody. Nobody is coming to save you but yourself. Save yourself boo, this is another tohu for you ❤️